At the Cafe

I was 16 and I needed money for social stuff, so I decided to search for a job. One of my Dad’s clients who ran a cafe said he had a job opening and I should come down. I was prepared for an interview, but they said as long as I could be polite and work hard I had the job. I thought this was golden so jumped at the opportunity. They said they didn’t contract any staff so we wouldn’t be taxed and they gave me okay money, better than some of my friends. But went downhill from there. They got this guy to train me, who was nice, but hopeless, so I had to make up stuff along the go. Everyone there seemed to have a stick up their arse and no matter how hard I tried to be social and friendly, I rarely had conversation back (except when one of the boys who worked there decided to tell me about how he and his friend “use each other” for sex). After about five months, someone nice started work and I noticed that her equally social nature seemed to make every other person there her friend. Slightly miffed about why I wasn’t treated the same, I thought, it is only a job and I can get through it.

One day, I came in early, did my work with no break for eight hours straight. That same day I had been teased by the guy who had told me about using his friend for sex. Only paid seven and a half hours and annoyed by him, I snapped at the guy and told him to “stop being such a douche and leave me alone so I can do my work without interuption the next week.” Since I had started the undeserved attack, according to my boss, and they shouldn’t pay me for that day, to which I replied, “I work really hard here and I do my job well whilst he slacks off talking about his sexual activites and I’m getting my pay docked? Really?” They left me alone with my seven and a half hours pay, but he got away scott free.

I worked harder than anyone else there and was often given extra shifts as they knew this. I was always 15 minutes early and never paid for it. But I thought this would build up a good rep. I rarely asked for days off and when I did, it would be for legit reasons. But they always seemed a bit arsey whenever I did saying, “We did this as a favour to your Dad seeing as you had no interview” in front of the other interviewed members of staff (the reason for their cold shoulder is now apparent). I said to my boss politely later that day that I was expecting an interview and that my father should have had nothing to do with my employment and should I have an interview to keep my job. I was told, “Keep your attitude out of the work place or you wont have one.” I liked having the money so I ignored it and stuck at it.

I then asked for two days off as I had important A level exams the following day. They said I might as well take the next few work days off as they were over staffed and come back at the end of my exams. I then returned and was told come back at the end of the month. This continued for two months until I gave up. I’m technically still employed as they never fired me.
It has been a year since, and I finally got a great full time job before my uni course starts. I never go in that cafe anymore and I have given it 1/5 stars on every website I could find (I wasn’t the only one) and often see comments saying, “Where is the tall fellow?” or “What happened to the lovely curly haired boy? He was always so nice and chatty.”

Comments (12)

tronnerJuly 26th, 2010 at 8:17 am

I’m confused by their logic. How would not giving you an interview relate in any way to your ability to take time off?

BikeLizardJuly 26th, 2010 at 8:17 am

If the cafe owners allowed nepotism (and it sounds like you worked quite hard, I’m referring only to your being hired, not your continued employment) they shouldn’t have thrown in in your face.

Having worked for numerous small businesses, the meanest owners tend to be the brokest owners. I’d guess they had over extended their credit or something- I’ve had bosses ask me not to sign in when I arrived early, but they expected me to work ‘off the clock.’

Maybe they figured they could take advantage of you since you worked under the table. Sounds like crap, I’m glad you got a better job. :)

Karen HanJuly 26th, 2010 at 8:46 am

that’s terrible, I wonder if they thought you got the job b/c of your dad’s client? I dunno. Did they explain why they were so nasty for you?

rawrJuly 26th, 2010 at 9:33 am

I agree with BikeLizard, they’re the ones who chose to hire you as a favor for your dad without giving you an interview. That just sounds like kind of a janky place to work for, regardless. :/

LisaJuly 26th, 2010 at 5:52 pm

If you were such a wonderful employee, why do you suppose they (unofficially) gave you the boot?

Lots of employers who pay hourly only pay for time scheduled– why’d you always show up 15 minutes early, knowing you wouldn’t be paid for it?

If it was such a shitty job, why’d you keep trying to return, after they told you you weren’t needed for a while?

Finally– the spitefulness demonstrated by giving them 1-star user ratings makes you seem petty & viscous, all things considered.

AndrewJuly 26th, 2010 at 6:20 pm

Eh, I can understand why he’d want to come back. As he said, he enjoyed having the money & sometimes no money is worse than whatever crap is given at work.

CJCrimGirlJuly 27th, 2010 at 1:07 am

I think in the end they saw your absence as a way to maybe just get out of the entire situation. I had a job like that when I was in college. I left to go to back to school and called my old food service job and found out that the management had changed. I just told them not to worry about it and the last time I heard anything out of them was when I got my wage information to file taxes.

As for LisaJuly-You were 16 and I have no idea how old you are now but I think that you did pretty well under pressure for being a teenager. I work with juvenile criminal offenders so I’m happy to see he at least was doing something productive with his time.

TheRestOfTheStoryJuly 27th, 2010 at 10:03 am

Reading the comments here, why are you an oily person if you give negative feedback?

NurseDreaJuly 27th, 2010 at 12:53 pm

If I was treated so shoddily at a job, I’d give it bad reviews too. Spare future individuals from having to endure or eat at said cafe, but I guess that would make me a petty and “thick” person ;-)

NambyPambyAugust 3rd, 2010 at 1:32 pm

This was written by a GUY? Seriously, I thought it was by some drama queen teenage girl.

Why is it that the employee is always so hard working, cheerful, goes above and beyond, and yet nobody ever appreciates it? I’ve known a lot of hard working teens over the years and they’re always appreciated, because they’re such a rare commodity.

Petty and vindictive are ugly traits to have, regardless of gender.

EdieAugust 9th, 2010 at 4:08 am

Did you work at Frankie and Bennys in the o2?! Because this is exactly what happened to me. But I had an interview. I think they were just dicks. Your story sounds like my story!

JeffAugust 19th, 2010 at 7:49 am

You were young, but the fcat that they were paying you under the table should have been your first clue that they wouldn’t hesitate to dirt you if it served their interests.

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